I think I might just have landed myself with the best boyfriend ever.
Notice I did not
bold nor
italic the 'best', so you can pretty much assume I meant literally what I just said.
Okay, so the normal superficial Anne Sally or Cindy probably retorts "he isn't even the most handsome the strongest the tallest and most certainly not the richest, and you're calling him the
best boyfriend
ever?" Which, in my very humble opinion, is as superficial as you can get.
So what if my boyfriend isn't the tallest or the richest or the most handsome? Mind you, rich, handsome and available is a combination you can NEVER find in the same package. Therefore you pretty much have to pick some and forgo the rest.
And I picked...
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ACCOMMODATING
Girls will understand how essential an accommodating boyfriend is at some point in time. Being girls we are particularly vulnerable to
some certain hormonal influences and I am not saying this to justify extreme temperaments. We have mood swings, be it hormonal or not; but the very anatomy we girls are living in, is going to make periodic mood swings even more difficult to control. (I really sound like I'm desperately trying to justify bad temperaments, don't I?) So in this aspect, a boyfriend who can take your shits and not lashing them back at you (seriously, I must be watching too much of Grey's Anatomy) is but highly appreciated.
Fortunately and coincidentally, such is the boy I am seeing now.
I hate Anat to the core alright, and so does everybody. But time and time again there is always this guy beside me, whispering into my ears to just try and be patient.
Then I got so demoralized by Geog (I am sure you are already aware of it), but there was this voice that made me see the blessings in disguise.
I am not the only one with a busy schedule, yet there's always this someone who made me sit with him every weekend to go through things in 2132.
And the guy who did everything, he has not even complained. Yet me, the ultimate beneficiary of these acts of generosity, throw tantrums periodically if not all the time.
He sees the best in everything but in his image I come to realize all my inadequacy, imperfections and how small I am as a character, and how much I need to improve as a person. And it so happens he is my walking template for me to learn.
So, he
IS the best boyfriend ever, right!
P.S. Goodness I sound like I'm crazily in love :D
