So they do come in a season. A season where hopes and dreams seem to be shattered, all that's left are mere disappointments. Often enough when we get too close, we tend to overlook the inherent character flaws in others, or maybe even to make each other the mirror image of us. That is to say, we tend to make people around us, us, expect their behaviours a duplicate of ours, and often get unhappy, simply because they aren't up to expectations.
Expectations, huh? Back to the killer-word again. The word everyone has problems with, yet everyone else still expect a great deal from others. Many say "friends are the mirror image of ourselves". So when you get upset with those you call 'friends', does that not mean, at the same time, you are unhappy with certain undesirable behaviour of yours? I don't mean we don't have a right to be unhappy about certain stuffs people around us do. I'm just saying, there's no need to be so disturbed, to the extent of being depressed, over something that's so characteristic of a person.
Have we forgotten, that everyone is born with inherent flaws in our character, and nobody is EVER perfect? Mayhap we can consider lowering our expectations on people around us, more so for those who are close to us, and begin accepting them for who they are?
Chill, my friend! Hope today's time is well spent in alleviating your heartache:) Though I doubt you'll ever find your way here XD
As you might notice, I started off my post on a happy note. But some stuupid hostel with stuuupid facilities that always break down has to ruin my chirpy mood and replace it with ultimate rage.
As I'm typing, my chest are heaving up and down, and my fingers are knocking on the goddamn keyboard like never before. Alright there's nothing with the keyboard but NOW, right now, the stuuuupid LAN in the com room cannot function properly. With the exception of MSN, there was practically no site which I can go. I start to wonder if this post is every posted.
New addition to the List of Reasons Dunman High Hostel Pisses My Ass, ladies and gentlemen, please put your hands together to welcome the Lift that Ever Spoils! It's like, seriously, I don't know what and where they spend their money on. SERIOUSLY. Because I'm seriously pissed with the inefficiency and ignorance and stupidity (what a tarnish to MY name!) this hostel and its management displays!
Oh so after calculating their budget they found out there was this MASSIVE budget surplus in their account, so one of them went "Hey! Why not we tear down those nice and practical steel mimic gates and replace with some hideous and ridiculous woodblocks so that half of the lift lobby on every floor of the girls' block is blocked?" And the other went "Yeah! Good idea! That's how we can spend our extra money!"
Sorry folks for my sudden outbreak of anger. Hope it didn't scare you:)
Joyce is in Sarawak now! Oh you one lucky babe! You must never forget to bring me things alright! You one lucky poke you!
