I must first say that humans are complex.
Not only biologically - I mean, we are multicellular organisms with different cells make up different tissues in the body with different functions - but also psychologically, emotionally, and even mentally. I won't deny hereby saying SOME people around me are just mental.
What do mentals do? Answer is just plain simple - things that are just out of your comprehension. Those that make you raise your eyebrows so high that they blend in with your hairlines. Those that make your eyeballs treaten to drop on the floor if you don't catch them with two bowls. Those that make your jaw drop till you can stick two fists inside.
Yes, it's those things. Due to the popularity of this place (don't question the credibility of my words - you came here tooXD) I shall be nice and shall not disclose the identity of this person just in case you might know him. OOps I just said it was a HIM but oh wells given his notoriety and miserliness you jolly well can infer for yourself who he is. That is, if you are interested in him, which I'm quite sure none of you would be.
And yes, I sound mean now. Oh I'm sorry Mr Notorious if you ever read this. I'm a die-hard miser heart-breaker because I just can't tolerate you who think so highly of MONEY and use it as a tool for measuring sacrifice and sincerity.
I'm not a rich girl, and no definitely far from the girl who sang 'Stars Are Blind' (of course they ARE). But I won't mind doing something for my friends, my family, and those I care for. If there's an urgent need, or if it's such a jewel I treasure so much, I will hesitate no more in giving, even if it means money out of my pocket. Because I know it's worth it.
So why scrimp over a mere three dollars!? Why be calculative over the amount of money that's gone with ONE meal? Three dollars - even less than McD student meal, and you tell me it's UNFAIR?! Come talk to me, you coward. I'll tell you what is UNFAIR.
UNFAIR is when you have done so much for others and not only did not get acknowledgement, but you also get disappointment. That is called UNFAIR. Just like what YOU, asshole of the year, just did to my friend. And indirectly, to me. If you aren't having the slightest thoughts to share the cost, then why bother sticking your irritating face among the crowd and beg for a piece of something you aren't willing to pay for huh? And mind you, I did not even get to join in the celebration while all cost was borned by my wallet. Now you get it? Next time get the meaning right before you say it's UNFAIR to you.
Freak.
Oops sorry folks I've been so whiney and bitchy. But I'm feeling better now.
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Sometimes the simplest of phrases can hurt the most. More so if they come from someone whom you thought has always been understanding and whom you thought is willing to share things - burden, confessions, woes.
But no, sometimes it's those people around you that hurt you.
This unfortunate event happened to one of my closest friend, and I really am too disappointed to say any further. No don't get me wrong, I didn't hurt my friend and neither did she hurt me but she apparently was somehow affected by what someone she treasures did.
So people, think before you speak. Think before you act. You should very well know of the consequences and make sure you can face them.
And asshole, you don't have to pay if you don't want to. And don't expect me to be nice in return.