So I'm back from Orchard, as you can see. And I'm here to fulfil my promise (see I'm a woman with her words), which is to blogg about what I left unfinished.
What I despise most are backstabbers. But I'm not gonna talk about such natural phenomena here. Just a slight level below backstabbers are those who are so low down and do everything in the dark. Slowly and silently, they penetrate your life by reading them like a book, and without you knowing it they are actually getting more and more grasp over the life you are leading. This is synonymous to say, there's a low down stalker who stalks people through their lives.
But what distinguishes these kind of people from mental stalkers is this. Stalkers merely confer some fear, to girls especially. These group of people spell disgust. They, like most stalkers do, stalk (alright I can see you are seeing black stuffs up there already). And of course make no immediate comments when they stalk. But awhile after that, in a totally open place, such as when there are many people present, this stalker starts to interfere. Subtle as he(stalker) might make it to sound, I am no idiot. I have at least the IQ to tell whether the comments were aimed at my life or not.
If you do things at the background, then remain there. Why lay down hints which expose your disgusting behaviour? That's not merely disgusting, that also mean you have not the intelligence for being a stalker. What a complete failure then!
Everyone has views you suscribe to and don't. If you do, clap for the person as a sign of acknowledgement. If you don't, don't condemn them either. Or worse, make wishy-washy 'suggestions' in the name of goodwill and lead everybody into another grey area. Eventually, people become smarter. They are able to tell the right from wrong, and subsequently the credibility of your words. Lead them into another grey area again, and you'll find yourself being condemned, exactly the way you condemned (or tried to) others by drawing reference from their lives you've been stalking.
Take nothing for granted. Perhaps you are trying to connect to more people, but you are completely tactless. For all you know it could even backfire, and another emotional crash you would then suffer.
Don't you realize you still get some due respect? Don't lose them by eyeball-rolling comments.
-I may joke, but I am no joker when my privacy is intruded. Using that as another arrow upon me just degrades you even further. Few have seen me when I show my true colours, when I do what I'm capable of, which probably may be beyond your imagination.***
And in the end, it's heartwarming to have a reservoir of friends to back you up.
Looneys, I just love you babes.
